Why being alone is an ultimately good thing.
First of all I should clear it out that being alone and being lonely are completely different things. Being alone is spending time by yourself and doesn't necessarily mean being lonely. You can have hundreds of friends but it doesn't interfere with you being alone because it is what makes you really you.
It is all about being able to except yourself for who you are, to be comfortable alone. To be able to listen to your thoughts and feelings. That's what it brings you, it brings you peace and harmony.
Some people are trying to hide it behind the curtains of having a huge social life and using that as an excuse. Like of course you don't have time to be alone because you are popular and interesting and everybody needs you. Hey, I'm not here to blame. A lot of people who have a big party of friends do live in peace with themselves. But think, some of them are actually lonely, they are to the fact that they can't be alone and indeed they turn up the volume so they can't hear their thoughts. Without it, without listening to your mind and heart and body you will never be able to get rid of this fear of being left alone with no friends at all and having to just exist by yourself. I'm calling to you! Embrace it! Every relationship will end someday no matter what but the only one will last forever and it's your relationship with you. You are the one who can do it!
Do it! Don't be afraid of your soul. We all need that time. Just relax. Turn on the airplane mode on your phone. Go run away to the countryside for a weekend. Go to see your favorite play. Go to Starbucks and pretend you're writing a book. Go get lost in the city. Do whatever you feel like doing. Idk, pretend you're French or something... Free your mind and your thoughts and you'll see how it much brings to your life.
That is not a most proper way to care less about opinions of others. Yet it is but state when you how to deal with it and how to accept.
Embrace being alone not lonely.
And, uh, maybe try some meditation and yoga?
Well at least what can be better than having a whole pizza just to yourself, right?
P.S. - hey, hey, hey, having close people that will support you is the greatest thing in the world and sometimes you don't need to be alone, you need them. In the end, just listen to your heart.





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